Hi ladies, I'm a guy and I'm new here. My hair is usually very short because I always get a haircut before it grows out. My hair texture is very silky. I usually can't get waves because my hair is just too smooth for it. Lately I've been wanting an afro but usually when I have an afro my hair is no longer silky and it really doesn't look as nice as it does when I have a fresh haircut. However, if I grow out an afro but straighten it I think it would look really nice. I've been looking all over the web for how a mixed guy (I'm black and Hispanic) can straighten his hair but I cannot find much on that. However I did read about "Dax Pressing Oil" and Using a "Hot Comb" to straighten it.
Can any of you ladies give me any advice/instructions on this? Would I like shampoo my hair, use the pressing oil and then use the Hot comb after? And how often would I need to straighten it? Or maybe you guys might have a totally different set of instructions please just let me know. Muchas Gracias

PS- I'm trying to avoid Perms and those kind of things...